Sometimes life can be challenging and tough! And sometimes we really just need that extra spring in our step. Whether it’s been a hard week/ month/ year, or you’re heading to a very important audition/ meeting / presentation, you need that extra bit of self-confidence and to hold your head high and be proud. Confidence is so important in any career. My secret is a great little confidence-boosting technique which you can use again and again, whenever you need it.
This is totally personal. It’s not for Facebook, your boss or your partner. It’s just for you.
Here’s how you do it –
Grab a pen, notebook or your computer. Turn your phone off, shut the door and close your email and browser. Write at the top of the page – My recent achievements. Now take the time to write them all down! Anything you’ve done recently that makes you smile: it can be personal as well as for work stuff. Maybe you got a great voiceover job, a brilliant acting role, produced a fantastic commercial, signed a top new client, helped out a friend in need, went the extra mile at work, looked in on an elderly neighbour, cooked an amazing cake. Keep writing until you have a nice big list. Now look at it.
Pretty amazing hey! I bet you’ve done a lot!
Now it’s written down you can see how it adds up.
Keep that list somewhere safe for when you need that pick me up again.
We are all fantastic human beings and I think it’s important sometimes to stop and just take note of all the great things we’ve done. I hope this has helped to give you that extra little spring in your step.
If you have any confidence boosting tips I’d love to hear them, I’m sure others would too so add them in the comments below. And if you’d like to share a recent achievement I’d love to hear about that too.
Loving this article!!
Personally, I have a very childish mind and when “in the office” I have to know when to keep that part of me under-wraps so when I know I can let the inner 6 yr old out, I do!!
Being an adult, we over complicate everything with past experience, that little voice that tells us we shouldn’t do that and fear of what others think. Excuse the bluntness but “Sod what anyone else thinks!!” Try and let the real you out for 5 minutes each day. That “real you” doesn’t have to be childish or silly. They can be a quiet reserved person. But spend time everyday being you!!!
Thanks for this Rob. I’m pleased you like my blog post. I think you’re right and spending time as the ‘real you’ whether it’s dancing around, being silly or sitting quietly is great advice. x